All that Girl power

Today while walking on the street I noticed something. Something major. I thought we were done with the old age the old thoughts of women being more like slaves then humans. More like an object that can be used and praised,and seriously girls,do you know how many like us fought for our freedom?. I think its all going back now.
So here are the many ways in which we unintentionally declare ourselves "the very VERY weaker sex":

• The daily rant in front of the mirror of "I am fat" "I am ugly" "My arms are ew" etc. Do you really think boys care to whine and cry at their 'ugliness' for more than a few seconds?
• We force ourselves to the torture of wax,not that it is nice to be very hairy but now waxing is an obsession not a need. An obsession men praise women for but never enjoy or try themselves,
• Fat. Anything over a size 6 is fat in boy language, in girl language,well I'm sorry I never heard a girl saying "So and so HAS to be a size 2 or else he is not getting me."
• Even now, boys try to keep track of everything about their girlfriend,and girls call it a good trait. Also known as "Possessiveness"
• Most of us are willing to change for men, cry for men, die for men

and the rest i will add later.

ciao

p.s Boys im not a feminist, burning bras, I'm just stating facts lol

Love is it?

Love is supposed to be such a big deal. Such a major intense emotion yet i personally think we don't judge well. There's a huge difference between loving someone and lusting for someone. So these are some ways to tell when its NOT love.

• You think its love at first sight. There's no such thing its love not magic.
• You just want to rip his shirt off and dream about all those 'things'.
• You think hes hot,sexy,drop dead good-looking,rich,popular, successful.
• His actions mean little to you.
• You ALWAYS think he's right.about everything.
• you call and tell your bff. 'i'm in love with him.Hes such a hottie!"
• You'll do anything to make him break up with his girlfriend or leave his female best friend.
• Who is he? what does he like?. Oh wait. You don't even know his full name.
• You know his Facebook statuses by heart. You have seen ALL his pictures. and follow him everywhere.
• alright so you find out he isn't interested. But you still run after him and make sure he knows.
• You are jealous and will destroy anyone who gets near him.
• You hurt yourself for him
• The day the popular crowd starts saying he has a bad nose or you realize it. Your interest somehow lessens.
• You think you can do anything for him. Even leave your parents even die. Even walk the town square in a teletubbies bikini.
• You say you will like him even if he becomes a murder,since your love is so strong. yeah right.
• Every single day you do everything for him. From your hair to your homework.
• You're impatient.
• You get too possessive.
• and last but not the least 'you know one day the power of your love will drag him here" so you wear your shortest skirt and your lowest low neck top every time you see him.

I am not tryin to say love doesn't exist or its waste. But infatuation,love and lust are very different things. Love is all about understanding and bonding and acceptance. Its about wanting the happiness of others even if his or her happiness doesn't include you. Love doesn't happen it grows and builds with time between two people. Infatuation is more bolder than love so is lost as it puts up quite a show. But love well thats another story. ;)

P.S all those points are for guys as well just change the bikini to boxers and she to he.

winkles.

<3

The NASTY truth

Okay so this it how it goes. Me and my best friend sitting on a bench and just our luck this sinfully hot guy HAS to pass by. So we stare in amazement and he turns around and looks at us. Well,at my friend with all that direct eye contact thing and he has that look all the hot guys have. As soon as he's gone my friend shrieks "ohmigod ohmigod! he looked at me!" and I can't help but feel just a bit of pure old jealousy.And she shrieks again only this time to tell me she ruined her shirt with the OJ she was having and we realize that it had been that weird sound of running juice that must've sounded like someone peeing in the bushes that had caused him to look at her only she'd been to busy staring.But its only later WAY later that i realized....okay when I ACCEPTED the NASTY DIRTY TRUTH. Or a list of them and here it goes:!

• When a guy doesn't text often or call even it doesn't mean he likes you it means HE JUST HAS BETTER THINGS TO DO.
• If a guy is staring at you check your shirt your buttons must be open
• If a guy is too happy to meet your girlfriends he likes one of them better
• You've told more than one mutual friend you're crushing on him.well guess what? He knows too.
• The whole school college or workplace thinks you like him and he still acts as if he never heard anything. Hes just not interested because he surely KNOWS.
• Remember that hot sexy bitch you hate and he loves? Yes hes in love with her looks and will continue till she dumps him
• There's a big fat line between humor and cruel humor. So the next time he says "hey slut,kink,big ass" dont smile.just DON'T
• He can't get his hands off you? He loves you.Not
• Its been over an year and he still doesn't take your relationship seriously.Guess what? He never will.So dont dream of that ring yet
• You caught him cheating now he says "I'm sorry it won't happen again. I love you and will do anything for you to get back" translation. "You're a good catch and i don't want to lose you. I will be cautious next time so you can't catch me cheating. so, I'l do anything even if it means buying a new phone for my other girl"
• If he says he trusts you so he'll tell you his ex's biggest secret. Don't give him your secrets.
• Is a guy hungry for your 'pictures' and doesn't send his. Just lay off the phone sex hes probably showing them around when he's drunk.and when he's not.
• If a guy can't spend money on you dont spend your time on him. As evil as it sounds it just means he doesn't value you enough. Its not like he has to get you a Prada bag
• If a guy doesn't want you talking to his best friend, he isn't possessive he's hiding something
• A guy who has too many girls around is not a hottie but a player.
• Yes I know he is best friends with her but thats no excuse to flirt with her. Difference between fuck buddy and best friend = Big.

Okay so this is it for now.lol But there is more. There HAS to be :P

winkles!!!

<3

Princess

Lets pretend its a fairytale,

I'll be the princess and you can be the knight,

so when im high up in a tower you can make things right.

You'l jump in through the window

and we'll kiss in the moonlight.

But we won't care about life

we wont worry about lies

and I'll say I do

as i look in you eyes

We will runaway from darkness

escape all our fears

and we'll fight for the love

and fight away the tears.

But I know I can't pretend

when you scream outright

So you'll never be the knight

and i'm no princess

so we will keep up a fight

we wont make it right

And you'll make me cry

we will keep up the lie

so when you've said you love me

and when you've said goodbye

ill lie down on my bed

and close my eyes

so that i can be a princess

and your love is not a lie.