Love is it?

Love is supposed to be such a big deal. Such a major intense emotion yet i personally think we don't judge well. There's a huge difference between loving someone and lusting for someone. So these are some ways to tell when its NOT love.

• You think its love at first sight. There's no such thing its love not magic.
• You just want to rip his shirt off and dream about all those 'things'.
• You think hes hot,sexy,drop dead good-looking,rich,popular, successful.
• His actions mean little to you.
• You ALWAYS think he's right.about everything.
• you call and tell your bff. 'i'm in love with him.Hes such a hottie!"
• You'll do anything to make him break up with his girlfriend or leave his female best friend.
• Who is he? what does he like?. Oh wait. You don't even know his full name.
• You know his Facebook statuses by heart. You have seen ALL his pictures. and follow him everywhere.
• alright so you find out he isn't interested. But you still run after him and make sure he knows.
• You are jealous and will destroy anyone who gets near him.
• You hurt yourself for him
• The day the popular crowd starts saying he has a bad nose or you realize it. Your interest somehow lessens.
• You think you can do anything for him. Even leave your parents even die. Even walk the town square in a teletubbies bikini.
• You say you will like him even if he becomes a murder,since your love is so strong. yeah right.
• Every single day you do everything for him. From your hair to your homework.
• You're impatient.
• You get too possessive.
• and last but not the least 'you know one day the power of your love will drag him here" so you wear your shortest skirt and your lowest low neck top every time you see him.

I am not tryin to say love doesn't exist or its waste. But infatuation,love and lust are very different things. Love is all about understanding and bonding and acceptance. Its about wanting the happiness of others even if his or her happiness doesn't include you. Love doesn't happen it grows and builds with time between two people. Infatuation is more bolder than love so is lost as it puts up quite a show. But love well thats another story. ;)

P.S all those points are for guys as well just change the bikini to boxers and she to he.

winkles.

<3